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If you ask brides what their biggest fears are for their wedding day, you will get plenty of different responses, from rain to drunken relatives to tripping on the way down the aisle. One of the main concerns, though, one that is shared by almost all brides, is that they will get too emotional during the wedding, and will end up a sobbing mess. If you are worried that your tears of joy will make it impossible for you to say your vows, these are a few tips to help out.
We've all seen it, either in movies or in person: the bride being escorted down the aisle by her father in her gorgeous white dress, veil, and wedding jewelry. She seems perfectly composed - until it is time to exchange the vows. She becomes so emotional that she can barely choke out her "I do" before losing it completely. If this sounds like a likely scenario for your wedding day, there are a few things you can do to prepare.
Think about what part of the wedding you think will trigger strong emotions. For instance, if you think that it will be reciting your vows, practice a few times alone in front of the mirror. If the words are familiar, maybe you won't get as choked up when you are saying them for real. If you think that seeing your fiance waiting for you at the end of the aisle is going to set off the waterworks, then you might consider spending a few minutes alone together before the wedding, so that you can have your moment in private.
What worked for me was to wear a blusher veil. As I felt myself getting emotional on my way down the aisle, seeing all of my family in the pews, I looked straight ahead and allowed the blusher to insulate me from the rest of the world. It may sound silly, but it worked. So for all of you brides who think a blusher is old-fashioned, I suggest giving one a try.
A few tears are inevitable on such a joyful and momentous occasion as a wedding, so it is wise to be prepared. The first thing that anyone will tell you is to wear waterproof mascara, so you don't end up with big black streaks down your face. Another good idea is to carry a pretty hankie so that you can graciously dab at those tears. A nice way to carry a hankie is to hold it in the same hand as your bouquet, so that it is right there if you need it.
It is not only brides who cry during weddings, by the way. Many a cool, calm, and collected bride has been worried about how her emotional fiance or father would handle the emotions of the big day. For doting fathers, seeing their little girls all grown up can be a trigger. One bride I knew invited her father to her final gown fitting, so that he would not be seeing her in her gown and wedding jewelry for the first time on the morning of her ceremony. It was a very touching experience for both of them; in fact there wasn't a dry eye in the room. And on the wedding day, her father was able to remain calm.
One final thing to remember is that there is no shame in shedding tears of joy on your wedding day. I knew one groom who was so overcome at the sight of his beautiful bride that they had to stop the ceremony altogether so that he could collect himself enough to exchange the vows. He may have been a blubbering mess, but every person at the wedding could see just how deeply he loved his wife, and isn't that exactly what a wedding should be about?
Ask Bridget for advice in areas of jewelry or weddings. She writes numerous articles providing information for the customers of Silverland Jewelry.com. Wedding jewelry provides the perfect finishing touch for your bridal gown.
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